When co-parenting is not feasible due to high conflict, parallel parenting can be an effective alternative. This method minimizes direct interaction between parents while allowing both to remain involved in their children’s lives.
What is Parallel Parenting?
Parallel parenting involves strict boundaries and minimal communication, focusing solely on the children’s needs. Each parent manages their responsibilities independently, reducing opportunities for conflict.
Steps to Implement Parallel Parenting:
- Create a Detailed Parenting Plan:
- Specify visitation schedules, decision-making authority, and rules for transitions.
- Limit Communication:
- Use apps like OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents to document and streamline communication.
- Avoid In-Person Interactions:
- Conduct hand-offs at neutral locations or through a third party.
- Focus on the Children:
- Avoid involving the children in conflicts or using them as messengers.
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