Coaching Tip Of The Week – Embracing Rejection For Real Estate Growth

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Let’s dive into something that’s as much a part of our industry as open houses and closing contracts but way less celebrated: rejection. Yep, the big, tough, and sometimes painful “no.”

Rejection stings—it’s totally human to feel that way. But here’s something we might forget: in real estate, a “no” is often just a “not yet.” It’s about timing, not a personal judgment on your worth. Most of the time, clients aren’t saying, “No, not you”; they’re saying, “Not right now.”

So, what happens when a potential client says they’re not ready? What goes through your mind? Do you get a little discouraged, or maybe take it personally? If so, that’s okay—you’re definitely not alone. But there are ways to transform how you see rejection, ways that can actually make it feel like a step forward rather than a step back. Let’s talk about a few of them.

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1. Approach with Love

Sounds a little soft for real estate, right? When we reach out to clients, it’s not just about the sale; it’s about helping them with one of the biggest financial (and emotional) decisions of their lives. If they say no, thank them. Maybe now isn’t the time for them, and that’s okay. By accepting it gracefully, you leave the door open for them to come back to you when they’re ready. In fact, that simple kindness might just be what brings them back.

2. Engage with Curiosity

A yes feels great, no doubt! But when someone says yes, don’t let excitement skip you straight to the end. Instead, get curious. Ask about their plans, motivations, and goals. Maybe they’re upsizing, downsizing, relocating, or investing. Each answer reveals something that can deepen your relationship and help you serve them better.

And when someone says no? Curiosity can help here, too. Sometimes, you can learn a lot from what they share about their reasons and timing, which can guide you in future interactions.

3. Utilize the FORD Technique

This is a classic, and for a good reason—it works! FORD stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams. These topics are universal and have the power to turn surface-level exchanges into meaningful conversations. People love talking about their families, their careers, their passions, and their goals. Asking these questions is a fantastic way to build trust, show genuine interest, and discover ways you can help them in the future.

Why This All Matters

When you shift your focus away from “how many clients say yes to me” to “how well I’m connecting and learning from each client interaction,” rejection becomes less about you and more about how you can help others. Not everyone will be ready to buy, sell, or invest right away, but the impression you make—how you handle that “not yet”—can leave a lasting impact.

Rejection is Part of the Journey

As you move through your week, think about how you respond to rejection. Do you let it derail you, or do you embrace it with grace, kindness, and love? Take each “no” as a sign that your next “yes” might just be around the corner. Keep building connections, nurturing relationships, and showing up with curiosity.

Here’s to handling rejection like a pro and helping others find their way in real estate, one interaction at a time. Keep going—you’re making a difference!


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